The best reason to read female body language is to: avoid rejection. Men often complain of getting blown off and often blame themselves for not approaching a woman the right way or for acting too forward or for not being attractive enough. Some of these things may be true but remember that approaching a lady at a gathering or party is only half the battle. You have to know from the start whether you will get rejected or not. Spare yourself the agony of guesswork and analyze her actions before even approaching her. Is she even ready to meet people or is she waiting for a boyfriend to arrive? Did she come alone to the party or is she scanning the crowd for a guy to go home with?
1. Search the crowd for preening women - A woman who is looking to be approached will stand more upright. Her facial muscles will be relaxed and she will show a half smile. She is most likely trying to act nonchalant and idly scanning the crowd while holding a drink in one of her hands.
2. Smoothing her hair - Part of this preening process is making sure that she looks her very best during any meeting. If she's not touching her hair, it's her dress. She will also turn around quite often to glance at a mirror. A guy can literally practice reading female body language a few minutes before he approaches, just to get familiar with the subtle signs that a woman sends out to indicate that she is really available and interested.
3. Watch her while she talks with other people - Notice slow crossing and uncrossing of the legs. If she delicately balances her shoe on the toe of one foot it may mean she's totally comfortable talking to this guy. Some female body language signs that convey comfort include tucking of the feet under the chair while caressing or fiddling with a part of her face or clothing.
4. Direct eye contact - You will often see a woman looking at you directly. Watch for signs when she looks away embarrassed as soon as you catch her. This is actually a good sign. A direct gaze is a sign that she wants attention. But don't approach her just yet. Send your own signals and let her continue giving you signs through female body language that shows she's eager to talk to you.
5. Look for shoulders and torsos that are pointing towards you. - You can test this female body language inside a library. When you pass by a row of shelves and a woman is right there holding a book, her body will follow you even when her eyes look down at the book. This is one sign that a woman is seeing and noticing you without looking directly at you, and this can be a cue to identify those women inside a room who are already aware of your presence.
6. Demure gestures - Every woman can act demure when in the presence of an attractive guy. It doesn't matter how empowered the woman is, when she's in front of a guy she likes, she will most likely act coy and demure. Subtle tilting of her head and laughing in a flirtatious way are some of the demure gestures to look for. - 16463
1. Search the crowd for preening women - A woman who is looking to be approached will stand more upright. Her facial muscles will be relaxed and she will show a half smile. She is most likely trying to act nonchalant and idly scanning the crowd while holding a drink in one of her hands.
2. Smoothing her hair - Part of this preening process is making sure that she looks her very best during any meeting. If she's not touching her hair, it's her dress. She will also turn around quite often to glance at a mirror. A guy can literally practice reading female body language a few minutes before he approaches, just to get familiar with the subtle signs that a woman sends out to indicate that she is really available and interested.
3. Watch her while she talks with other people - Notice slow crossing and uncrossing of the legs. If she delicately balances her shoe on the toe of one foot it may mean she's totally comfortable talking to this guy. Some female body language signs that convey comfort include tucking of the feet under the chair while caressing or fiddling with a part of her face or clothing.
4. Direct eye contact - You will often see a woman looking at you directly. Watch for signs when she looks away embarrassed as soon as you catch her. This is actually a good sign. A direct gaze is a sign that she wants attention. But don't approach her just yet. Send your own signals and let her continue giving you signs through female body language that shows she's eager to talk to you.
5. Look for shoulders and torsos that are pointing towards you. - You can test this female body language inside a library. When you pass by a row of shelves and a woman is right there holding a book, her body will follow you even when her eyes look down at the book. This is one sign that a woman is seeing and noticing you without looking directly at you, and this can be a cue to identify those women inside a room who are already aware of your presence.
6. Demure gestures - Every woman can act demure when in the presence of an attractive guy. It doesn't matter how empowered the woman is, when she's in front of a guy she likes, she will most likely act coy and demure. Subtle tilting of her head and laughing in a flirtatious way are some of the demure gestures to look for. - 16463
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