Wednesday, January 14, 2009

The Best Valentines Doems Idea

By John Yarled

Guys, its almost February 14th again. The merchants are stocking shelves with hearts, speckled with red and pink colors. Dozens of red roses fill all the flower shops to capacity. Most offer ferns, babys breath and arrangements to catch the eye. So men, now is your time to make a little effort and get her the most original gift. Your happiness depends on it.

So, where do we start? Chocolates in heart like containers with long stem roses are always favorite staples for this most significant holiday. These two are what we call a safe bet. Regrettably, you will not make points for originality when you play it safe.

Want to make an impression? Ask yourself, what doe she like? Write these things down in a secret journal, note pad or PDA. All women appreciate the little things. But who can remember this stuff? So be sure to pay attention when she drops those little nuggets and write it down in your secret black book. This information is better than gold.

Not sure what to look for? Here are a few of my favorite suggestions. What does she order most often when you are out? Dont forget the dessert. What flowers does she look at? Think a dozen roses is going to cover it this year? Think again. Does she love Lilies? Add colorful Lilies to the usual roses for Valentines Day. Little details make a special Valentines Day for her.

Have you over done the favorite restaurant thing? Ever thought about cooking her favorite dish? Maybe cooking isn't your style. Here is a killer idea. Hire a chef to come to your home, prepare the meal and he serves it to the two of you over candle light. Have favorite flowers as the tables center piece. Woo her with champagne and strawberries for dessert. From there your night is just beginning.

Not that you will need it, and for some extra points play her favorite romantic music in the background. This will fix the mood. Will she be impressed? There is no doubt. You just went above and beyond. Its not just the usual chocolates and roses this year.

Original gifts just take a little tweaking here and there. No need to spend like a king. As Valentines Day draws closer, she will indirectly tell you things that she likes. Dont be obvious that your paying attention. Mystery is always fun. Make the arrangements in secret and the element of surprise will add to the day.

Are you going to fall into the trap and not plan for the day? Other guys mistakenly use the same old routines. Dont be one of those guys. Cheap leftovers are not fun and she will not feel appreciated. And boys its all about the feelings. A little effort means a happy woman and a happy woman means your life get so much easier. - 16463

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