A lot of women have so many roles to maintain in their life, if they were to be taken away, it would be hard to imagine what would be left standing. Of course, we are happy to do all the roles required of us, and to feel a sense of accomplishment in them.
The roles we take on are not what define our selves. While roles change, so do we, and out paths in life as well.
But should we really wait until a divorce or death, for the kids to go away to school, or any other life changing events, before we begin looking for ourselves? The answer of course is no. What can make you a happier more well rounded person, is finding whatever it is that makes you happy and diving into it. Getting to know yourself, and doing things for yourself is one of the best things that you can do in life, not only for you, but for all the people around you.
So many times, we as wives and mothers put our desires on the back burner and wait and say that there are just too many demands on us to think about doing something for ourselves. Many times what comes of this is a lack of self worth. In other words don't be a wonderful, talented, brilliant woman who doesn't know it. Trust in those things and do what makes you happy and from that only good will come not only for you but for everyone in your life.
Saving your marriage can just be starting with you. Feeling better about yourself, will lead to more things. If you give your best in a relationship, you will most likely get it in return. If you release your self to people, and believe in yourself, and feel confident, your marriage will strengthen. - 16463
The roles we take on are not what define our selves. While roles change, so do we, and out paths in life as well.
But should we really wait until a divorce or death, for the kids to go away to school, or any other life changing events, before we begin looking for ourselves? The answer of course is no. What can make you a happier more well rounded person, is finding whatever it is that makes you happy and diving into it. Getting to know yourself, and doing things for yourself is one of the best things that you can do in life, not only for you, but for all the people around you.
So many times, we as wives and mothers put our desires on the back burner and wait and say that there are just too many demands on us to think about doing something for ourselves. Many times what comes of this is a lack of self worth. In other words don't be a wonderful, talented, brilliant woman who doesn't know it. Trust in those things and do what makes you happy and from that only good will come not only for you but for everyone in your life.
Saving your marriage can just be starting with you. Feeling better about yourself, will lead to more things. If you give your best in a relationship, you will most likely get it in return. If you release your self to people, and believe in yourself, and feel confident, your marriage will strengthen. - 16463
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