Part 1: Lifetime relationship (seeking a wife)
Your photo. Your latest snapshot in a suit from the office neither your semi-naked body planted into sand on a beach will not do best work for you here, assuming that you are looking for a lifelong relationship. The best approach is to present yourself in a quiet, homey background, in armchair, with a grey Chihuahua sitting on your lap. If you got no pets, just borrow one for occasion, or post a close-shot of your face with your best smile. Note, even your very best picture with past girlfriend sitting on your lap, will not be a good substitute for a pet picture.
Your text. It is not a good idea to write something like: I am tired from all work and no play, I need you! or, just plain Hey girls, I am here! Dont take me literally, please, all I want to say is that telling her that you are tired workaholic (or tired womanizer) and that is why you are here, will not do any good. Better is to give her brief and to the point description of your main character features, your interests in life and plans. Leave the rest for future chats.
Temptation. This depends on what kind of woman you are looking for. Tune her on your wavelength with such phrases, for example, as I will take you, my love, to Paris, and we will spend a week at Louvre. Or, My dream is to awake every morning and hear cheerful giggling of our kids. Or, one more: I cant imagine my life without mountain trail and a backpack. These points are needed to give woman an idea on what will be her life with you. If you are seeking a music lover, do not write modestly I love music. Better write something like: I have got blown away by the recent concert of Santana, or Requiem of Mozart makes me cry.
Part 2: A short romance (just a good time)
Your picture Anything that will tell her that you are an attractive, easy-going, kind and fun person, who will not load her with his problems and will give her one or two weeks of a great time will be OK here. You and your chopper? Fine. You are getting tan on Ipanema beach? Great. You are dancing French cancan during intermission between the dinner and show in Moulin Rouge with prima Galyna K.? Hope she would not mind that too.
Text Do not go deep into the mysteries of your personal life. Brief romance is a brief romance. Prepare her that it will not be long, but sweet. Do not say honestly: I need a partner for intimacy. Even if she is looking just for the same, she will not be fond of an idea that she is chosen for that only. Certain emotional degree of relationship is important for women. She should not be told that you just want her out of a physical need.
Bait. It is a call for romance, so you have to be romantic. Promise (and give her) beautiful sunsets by the ocean and coffee in bed in the morning, good time without pledges and mutual obligations, and she will be OK with the rest. There will be no immaterialized promises, no hard feelings or broken hearts, so when the time will come, you will depart graciously from this romance and you both will move on to the next one.
Good luck. - 16463
Your photo. Your latest snapshot in a suit from the office neither your semi-naked body planted into sand on a beach will not do best work for you here, assuming that you are looking for a lifelong relationship. The best approach is to present yourself in a quiet, homey background, in armchair, with a grey Chihuahua sitting on your lap. If you got no pets, just borrow one for occasion, or post a close-shot of your face with your best smile. Note, even your very best picture with past girlfriend sitting on your lap, will not be a good substitute for a pet picture.
Your text. It is not a good idea to write something like: I am tired from all work and no play, I need you! or, just plain Hey girls, I am here! Dont take me literally, please, all I want to say is that telling her that you are tired workaholic (or tired womanizer) and that is why you are here, will not do any good. Better is to give her brief and to the point description of your main character features, your interests in life and plans. Leave the rest for future chats.
Temptation. This depends on what kind of woman you are looking for. Tune her on your wavelength with such phrases, for example, as I will take you, my love, to Paris, and we will spend a week at Louvre. Or, My dream is to awake every morning and hear cheerful giggling of our kids. Or, one more: I cant imagine my life without mountain trail and a backpack. These points are needed to give woman an idea on what will be her life with you. If you are seeking a music lover, do not write modestly I love music. Better write something like: I have got blown away by the recent concert of Santana, or Requiem of Mozart makes me cry.
Part 2: A short romance (just a good time)
Your picture Anything that will tell her that you are an attractive, easy-going, kind and fun person, who will not load her with his problems and will give her one or two weeks of a great time will be OK here. You and your chopper? Fine. You are getting tan on Ipanema beach? Great. You are dancing French cancan during intermission between the dinner and show in Moulin Rouge with prima Galyna K.? Hope she would not mind that too.
Text Do not go deep into the mysteries of your personal life. Brief romance is a brief romance. Prepare her that it will not be long, but sweet. Do not say honestly: I need a partner for intimacy. Even if she is looking just for the same, she will not be fond of an idea that she is chosen for that only. Certain emotional degree of relationship is important for women. She should not be told that you just want her out of a physical need.
Bait. It is a call for romance, so you have to be romantic. Promise (and give her) beautiful sunsets by the ocean and coffee in bed in the morning, good time without pledges and mutual obligations, and she will be OK with the rest. There will be no immaterialized promises, no hard feelings or broken hearts, so when the time will come, you will depart graciously from this romance and you both will move on to the next one.
Good luck. - 16463
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