Saturday, December 13, 2008

Is Your Spouse Cheating? Here's How To Find Out For Sure

By Doug Timlin

With infidelity rates being higher now than ever before, it's not surprising how many people have suspicions that their spouse might be cheating. It you have your suspicions, you will be glad to know there's an easy way to find out.

This simple "detective's tactic" can get you the answers you want without your spouse ever knowing that you were "investigating" them. Let's cut to the chase and go over each step.

Step #1

Ok - let's get to it. Your first "mission" is to find about 15 minutes where you can be alone with your spouse's cell phone. You need to pick a time that you can look at it without worrying about anyone walking in on you.

Once you have gotten a hold of their cell phone, you need to look through the call history that is stored on their phone. Look through the phone and find both the 'incoming' and 'outgoing' call history lists

As you look through the list of phone numbers, write down each one you see on a piece of paper. Any phone number that you recognize you don't have to write down but make sure that every other phone number is being jotted down.

The Second Step

In this next step you are going to put a name to every phone number on your list - this is the most important step in getting the answers you are looking for.

You can find out someone's full name, address and background information just by having their phone number. This type of search is called a 'reverse phone lookup' and will give you instant access to full details about who owns any phone number.

The companies that provide this service pay for access to all phone records so that they can build huge databases that have information on all phone numbers. All you do is punch in the phone number (it's done online) and then the person's details are shown right on your computer's screen.

It's no surprise that these companies charge a fee when you use a search, but it isn't anything expensive. My recommendation is to find a company that offers unlimited searches for a flat one-time fee. There are a few that offer this which makes it a lot cheaper than having to pay for each individual search.

We included a link at the bottom of this article where you can try a free sample search and see how this works.

You guessed it - you are going to run a search on every phone number on your list. As you are doing this make sure to write down the information you uncover for each one next to the number.

Step Number Three

At this point your sheet of paper include the names of every person that your spouse has been talking to on the phone. This is such a huge piece of information - it's easy to notice anything suspicious when you know who your partner has been communicating with.

Look over your list and see if there is anything that looks suspicious. It's hard to tell you exactly what to look for, but I can guarantee that anything suspicious will jump off the page at you. After all, you now have the name and background information of everyone your spouse has talked to on their phone.

If you think there's a chance that your spouse might be cheating on you, use the above trick to find out the truth. You owe it to yourself to find out for sure and this is a quick and easy way to find out all on your own. Good luck! - 16463

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