Finding a good relationship is not always easy. When we do find a potential match we begin with that magical question: can this person be the one? But then, as the relationship progresses, sometimes we question what we have. When do we know that it is not meant to be?
We strive to find the right match. We long for that lasting relationship that makes us feel wanted and needed, and helps us feeling fulfilled. But we also know the flipside, about the heartbreak of being in a relationship that is not rewarding and complete. That feeling we have, is it fear of intimacy, or intuitively knowing it's not right?
We all know that finding a good relationship is possible. But no one has really captured a magical formula or special method to knowing if what we have will be lasting or not. Which way are we running, toward happiness, or away from it?
Let's look at the dream vs. reality aspects of relationships: Is your relationship based on a shared reality, or is it filled with illusion? How much are your desires dictating the reality of your relationship?
Is there balance between the dream world where we create based on our wants and needs, and the real day to day reality? In a real relationship we are interacting with another person, with their own thoughts and dreams. For their own sake they must be true to their own perceptions, not live up to yours.
When we are in a truly loving interpersonal relationship with another we connect on levels not experienced in the other type of relationship. There is a reality that is shared between two people.
The bond that is between two people can be amazingly strong and incredibly weak at the same time. It is built on both the reality shared, and the perception we have of that reality. Delving into our inner world can help us in determining if the feelings you have in your relationship are based on fact, or fantasy. - 16463
We strive to find the right match. We long for that lasting relationship that makes us feel wanted and needed, and helps us feeling fulfilled. But we also know the flipside, about the heartbreak of being in a relationship that is not rewarding and complete. That feeling we have, is it fear of intimacy, or intuitively knowing it's not right?
We all know that finding a good relationship is possible. But no one has really captured a magical formula or special method to knowing if what we have will be lasting or not. Which way are we running, toward happiness, or away from it?
Let's look at the dream vs. reality aspects of relationships: Is your relationship based on a shared reality, or is it filled with illusion? How much are your desires dictating the reality of your relationship?
Is there balance between the dream world where we create based on our wants and needs, and the real day to day reality? In a real relationship we are interacting with another person, with their own thoughts and dreams. For their own sake they must be true to their own perceptions, not live up to yours.
When we are in a truly loving interpersonal relationship with another we connect on levels not experienced in the other type of relationship. There is a reality that is shared between two people.
The bond that is between two people can be amazingly strong and incredibly weak at the same time. It is built on both the reality shared, and the perception we have of that reality. Delving into our inner world can help us in determining if the feelings you have in your relationship are based on fact, or fantasy. - 16463
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Author Estee Taschereau is a Successful Living Coach. Is there something in your past that affects your abilities today? Get an intuitive reading session by phone.
