Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Find out if your spouse or partner is cheating on you!

By Glen Pearson

In almost half of all the relationships out there, one or the other partner is cheating. This isn't the most pleasant of statistics, but it's true - more and more relationships are ending because people are dishonest. If you're worried about whether or not your significant other is lying to you, here's a way to find out if it's true.

This isn't difficult to do and you can have your answer in less than two hours if you start now. We'll break it down into three steps for you to keep it simple.

First Step:

This part is the hardest. You'll need to make sure there's a time when you're able to get your hands on your significant other's cell phone for ten minutes or so, without him or her knowing it. There's no need to look at it for long, so finding a good time usually isn't hard.

A couple of ideas as to how to do this are: wait for them to go in the shower, wait for them to run out to the store without their phone or wait for them to fall asleep and look at it in another room at that point. I'll let you find the best time, but these are a few examples that people have successfully used.

The Second Step:

When you have their phone, find the call logs list on the phone. You want to be able to see all of the incoming and outgoing calls that have occured.

Use a piece of paper, a notebook, or even a computer to take down all the numbers you find. That shouldn't take more than five to ten minutes, even for phones with a lot of calls. When you're done, return the phone to where you found it.

Step Three:

Here's the final step and the step where you find out if anything suspicious is going on in your relationship.

Now is the time to find out who owns every one of the phone numbers on the list you just created. That'll let you know just who your partner has been talking to.

To get details on the owner of a phone number, you need to use what is known as a "reverse phone lookup". In this case, this is the key for you to catch a cheater.

Reverse phone lookups allow you to take a phone number and find out all the details about the owner of the phone it's attached to. You'll get their name and address, as well as detailed background data.

You'll need to use a service that specializes in reverse phone lookups to do this. While they do cost a little, it's not expensive. Make sure you choose a company that only charges a one time member ship fee, and you'll be able to pay once and run unlimited lookups on all the numbers on your list.

Now, you'll want to run a reverse phone number lookup on each and every one of those numbers you wrote down. When you get the information, write down the details. Look at it later to see if any suspicious call activity or names jump out at you.

This is the easiest way to catch a cheater and find out if your spouse, girlfriend or boyfriend is being unfaithful. It's a powerful yet easy method to get the truth about your relationship. - 16463

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