One sad truth is that nearly 30% of married men can be categorised as a 'cheating married man'. This is overall no matter where these men look for their prey. Basically it means that you have a good chance to meet one of them if you are presently single. Of course, you can't exactly judge him by the cover as he may look innocent from the outside.
Another bad news is that women are very emotional being that many women are trapped in an emotional rut of being the other woman. I said trapped because no woman intentionally has an affair with a cheating married man. Part of their conscious mind tells them that they should break it off but as you know, it is easier said than done.
So how can you avoid getting into this kind of unhealthy affair? You need to avoid even getting too close to a married man in the first place. This is important as a woman's logic is only intact in the early stage of a new relationship before completely replaced by helpless emotion. Some married men will try to hide their marital situation so let's just read on to find out how to spot a cheating married man from miles away.
Following are few warning signs to tell you that you are involved -- or about to be involved with a married man:
First of all you would notice that he doesn't like making plans in advance. This is because it is hard for a cheating married man to commit to plans made early. He would cover it up or make excuses saying that he is a spontaneous type of guy that he doesn't like to have a set timetable.
He has no integrity as he always cancels plans in the last minute. It's no surprise that you sometimes wonder whether or not he will show up for a date 5 minutes before the pre-arranged date time.
Dates are often on weekdays rather than the prime Friday or Saturday nights. He seems to be busy on the weekend as well as holidays such as Valentine's Day, Christmas, Easter etc. Yes he probably would make it up to you such as asking you out the day after the Valentine's Day to celebrate it late -- or early.
In terms of phone calls, you would see that he rarely answers phone calls though he would return them -- sometimes at a much later time. Also, when you are actually talking to him on the phone, the phone call is often cut short due to his signals or battery running out etc. And when he is actually with you, you may notice that he has it turned off.
On top of all that, it seems that none of his friends or family actually know that your relationship exists. You probably don't even know his real address or work information -- depending on how comfortable he is in you knowing this information about him.
Last but not least, this can also be a sign although not a definite indicator. A cheating married man would seem to be more understanding -- accept you for who you are by not complaining about anything at all about you. He would be a real sweet talker, and your relationship seems to be always in a fantasy land. Also, your relationship with him is probably more -- if not all -- physical.
One last note, dating is a fun and wonderful experience to have. The risk of broken heart is always there whether or not you are dating a cheating married man. However, be aware that you are emotional by nature and it is completely unnecessary to take on a very high risk of getting your heart broken by going out with one of them. Stick with the available men out there. - 16463
Another bad news is that women are very emotional being that many women are trapped in an emotional rut of being the other woman. I said trapped because no woman intentionally has an affair with a cheating married man. Part of their conscious mind tells them that they should break it off but as you know, it is easier said than done.
So how can you avoid getting into this kind of unhealthy affair? You need to avoid even getting too close to a married man in the first place. This is important as a woman's logic is only intact in the early stage of a new relationship before completely replaced by helpless emotion. Some married men will try to hide their marital situation so let's just read on to find out how to spot a cheating married man from miles away.
Following are few warning signs to tell you that you are involved -- or about to be involved with a married man:
First of all you would notice that he doesn't like making plans in advance. This is because it is hard for a cheating married man to commit to plans made early. He would cover it up or make excuses saying that he is a spontaneous type of guy that he doesn't like to have a set timetable.
He has no integrity as he always cancels plans in the last minute. It's no surprise that you sometimes wonder whether or not he will show up for a date 5 minutes before the pre-arranged date time.
Dates are often on weekdays rather than the prime Friday or Saturday nights. He seems to be busy on the weekend as well as holidays such as Valentine's Day, Christmas, Easter etc. Yes he probably would make it up to you such as asking you out the day after the Valentine's Day to celebrate it late -- or early.
In terms of phone calls, you would see that he rarely answers phone calls though he would return them -- sometimes at a much later time. Also, when you are actually talking to him on the phone, the phone call is often cut short due to his signals or battery running out etc. And when he is actually with you, you may notice that he has it turned off.
On top of all that, it seems that none of his friends or family actually know that your relationship exists. You probably don't even know his real address or work information -- depending on how comfortable he is in you knowing this information about him.
Last but not least, this can also be a sign although not a definite indicator. A cheating married man would seem to be more understanding -- accept you for who you are by not complaining about anything at all about you. He would be a real sweet talker, and your relationship seems to be always in a fantasy land. Also, your relationship with him is probably more -- if not all -- physical.
One last note, dating is a fun and wonderful experience to have. The risk of broken heart is always there whether or not you are dating a cheating married man. However, be aware that you are emotional by nature and it is completely unnecessary to take on a very high risk of getting your heart broken by going out with one of them. Stick with the available men out there. - 16463
About the Author:
Sally Webb is the Editor of Cheating-Spouse-Alert.com. Have a look at her site for more advice on topics of infidelity and affairs from signs of cheating spouse to how to catching them. Also, check out the article about cheating married man on will they ever leave their wife.
