Most men have felt approach anxiety while out at clubs and bars. For most guys it takes over when considering to approach a woman they deem intriguing. Approach anxiety can be so overwhelming that it prevents a man from ever speaking to women.
There's a manner for beating this social paralysis. For a lot of guys approach anxiety initiates as an internal negative dialouge. This mental loop can be ceased and conquered with an opposing positive dialouge.
Question: "Why am I out tonight?"
Answer: "To meet a woman."
Question: "How will I be able to meet and attract women?"
Answer: "I must approach them."
Question: "If I do not approach how will I feel?"
Answer: "I won't feel good about myself and I'll view tonight as a worthless and awkward time."
Question: "For how long will I then think about this negative experience?
Answer: "I will think about it until I go out again and I will feel horrible."
Question: "Do I want to feel crappy for a while or do I want to feel great right now?"
Answer: "I want to feel like a rock-star, let's do this!"
Then, you must make all of your effort worthwhile, so you must act! Use the powerful negative feelings of your approach anxiety to launch you to approach. Turn your fear into your power. - 16463
There's a manner for beating this social paralysis. For a lot of guys approach anxiety initiates as an internal negative dialouge. This mental loop can be ceased and conquered with an opposing positive dialouge.
Question: "Why am I out tonight?"
Answer: "To meet a woman."
Question: "How will I be able to meet and attract women?"
Answer: "I must approach them."
Question: "If I do not approach how will I feel?"
Answer: "I won't feel good about myself and I'll view tonight as a worthless and awkward time."
Question: "For how long will I then think about this negative experience?
Answer: "I will think about it until I go out again and I will feel horrible."
Question: "Do I want to feel crappy for a while or do I want to feel great right now?"
Answer: "I want to feel like a rock-star, let's do this!"
Then, you must make all of your effort worthwhile, so you must act! Use the powerful negative feelings of your approach anxiety to launch you to approach. Turn your fear into your power. - 16463
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