Wednesday, December 10, 2008

3 Reasons Why Men Dump Women And You Can Avoid Themselves

By Hilda Laine

It is often a woman will be dropped for reasons that could have been eliminated in the early stages of a relationship. Finding out if these excuses for a departure exist in a relationship before too much of an emotional tie is formed would make life a lot easier. By knowing these excuses exist a lot of grief could be eliminated by ending a relationship early on, before doing so would be very painful.

In this article, we will talk about the top 3 bad reasons men decide to call it quits with a woman. These three reasons are common reasons but they say more about the man than the woman or the relationship. Still, they also say something about the vetting process used to pick men these days.

For sure, these reasons are bad ones and any guy who uses them, in the final analysis, is an idiot. Still, these guys are around and so we girls have to be aware of them and their warped senses of reasoning.

His Friends Like Her More

Many times a man becomes taken by a woman who seems to be attractive to others he associates himself with. While reasoning like this is probably reserved for guys with inferiority complexes, many men are more concerned by having some one who is approved by their peers than they are finding somebody they truly love.

A problem will arise if his friends change their minds or if he happen to move up, or down to a new set of friends who don't take to her. In his zeal to make sure he has the best mate, he will have to quit his relationship with this unapproved woman and find one his friends are comfortable with.

She's No Longer The Hot Body She Once Was

Many times, at first site two people become head over heels in love with one another. But is this love really love or is it a "let's make love" attraction? Sometimes it's hard to tell the difference at first between having found a compatible mate or having found the perfect date; if you know what I mean.

Then, the years move on and before your know it he's thinking, "Hey, I can do better than her!" This happens more than it should. The moral to the story is; make sure there is something more to a relationship than good old fashion, well... you know.

Having a Family is Too Tough!

Here's mistake number one! He/she or they want to live together in an open, or unmarried relationship and never want to make a commitment. Then, even though they both agree not to make a commitment, they start a family.

You would never think a human being could stoop so low, but some guys decide they want to end a relationship just because it has become too tough! Can you imagine? It really happens, married life with kids and responsibilities is just too much of a hassle for their little minds so off they go. Bye!

Human nature happens. So when man and woman live together in one house, or more explicitly stated, one bedroom, families often result. Before this happens with disastrous results, don't agree to a "let's live together" relationship without working out every detail in advance. - 16463

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