There are two ways of learning how to be a player: get pre-selected and prevent her from turning you into "just a friend". There is a big difference between being just a friend and being her boyfriend, and we are going to delineate that right now. The first thing is easier to do than the second, so we are going to tackle the more difficult method first.
Want to know how to be a player by being her boyfriend, not just her friend?
Yes, many dating sources will tell you that knowing how to be a player means flirting with every woman and sleeping with anyone you have the opportunity to, even your female friends. However, sleeping with a female friend is like scratching a slight itch, while making love to a boyfriend means falling deeply in love with him through the physical interchange.
If you don't care at all about what women think, and feel relieved that having girl pals to have sex with when you feel the itch can be all right, but what if your female pal suddenly becomes seriously involved with another guy? What will happen to you then?
Can you see the problem there?
You can never be too sure that your girl pal will want you for a boyfriend, and the worst part is that if you are really close to her, she will get it immediately that you are learning how to be a player and she might not take you seriously at all.
Besides, if you are going to turn into a player after you have gone through all the tips on how to be a player, would you really want to risk your friendship with your best gal pals? The risk there is that, if they DO fall in love with you and yet you cannot commit, you will be losing not only a girlfriend but also a friend. Yes, you don't want that to happen, so beware.
Let's look at the second method. The road to being a boyfriend is fairly straightforward, and if you turn into one through your original friendship, there's a bigger chance that you can never go back to being "just friends". And for all you may know, you'll never be able to get out of the "friend zone" and be stuck there forever.
Your best move at making it as a player is to be honest with your female counterparts. Tell them honestly that you are open to a relationship in the distant future, but not right now. If she's not okay with that, she can still be your friend and can possibly even help you with the next moves of learning how to be a player social proofing.
Have your gal pal introduce you to other women as her "ex" so that the girls you will meet can be alerted to your value. The fact that you have become the boyfriend of an attractive woman and that you are now separated amicably means you are one hell of a cool guy. This social proofing technique is almost fool proof and I'm sure you can see why. Your value increases, and so girls would want to date you. - 16463
Want to know how to be a player by being her boyfriend, not just her friend?
Yes, many dating sources will tell you that knowing how to be a player means flirting with every woman and sleeping with anyone you have the opportunity to, even your female friends. However, sleeping with a female friend is like scratching a slight itch, while making love to a boyfriend means falling deeply in love with him through the physical interchange.
If you don't care at all about what women think, and feel relieved that having girl pals to have sex with when you feel the itch can be all right, but what if your female pal suddenly becomes seriously involved with another guy? What will happen to you then?
Can you see the problem there?
You can never be too sure that your girl pal will want you for a boyfriend, and the worst part is that if you are really close to her, she will get it immediately that you are learning how to be a player and she might not take you seriously at all.
Besides, if you are going to turn into a player after you have gone through all the tips on how to be a player, would you really want to risk your friendship with your best gal pals? The risk there is that, if they DO fall in love with you and yet you cannot commit, you will be losing not only a girlfriend but also a friend. Yes, you don't want that to happen, so beware.
Let's look at the second method. The road to being a boyfriend is fairly straightforward, and if you turn into one through your original friendship, there's a bigger chance that you can never go back to being "just friends". And for all you may know, you'll never be able to get out of the "friend zone" and be stuck there forever.
Your best move at making it as a player is to be honest with your female counterparts. Tell them honestly that you are open to a relationship in the distant future, but not right now. If she's not okay with that, she can still be your friend and can possibly even help you with the next moves of learning how to be a player social proofing.
Have your gal pal introduce you to other women as her "ex" so that the girls you will meet can be alerted to your value. The fact that you have become the boyfriend of an attractive woman and that you are now separated amicably means you are one hell of a cool guy. This social proofing technique is almost fool proof and I'm sure you can see why. Your value increases, and so girls would want to date you. - 16463
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