Thursday, January 15, 2009

Healing Hands - The Vital Tool for Relationship Intimacy

By Rebecca E. Adams

The gloss ads, cheesy soap operas and romantic chick flicks - all give the impression that the physical expression of love and intimacy is easy, hassle free and fun.

From the mind, body and soul level - do you really feel a deep and meaningful connection with your partner?

The deep dark corners of a non-intimate relationship are never explored by the media, the movies, or the neighbours.

The bedroom is transformed into a battleground - a place where strategies are planned and executed, and the manipulation and control of our partners are the key aims.

Healing Touch could be the saving grace of your relationship - the tool with which to give healing to your partner. Healing is not just the preserve of healers and light beings, as each and everyone of us is capable of giving healing touch.

Healing is officially defined as "to restore to health"

Give your lover comfort and nurture simply by using healing touch. Feel your love and appreciation of them; consciously touch and stroke their hands, body and face. Do this in a slow, gentle and focused manner. Imagine pink heart energy flowing from your heart to theirs and back again.

When is comes to Healing Touch, remember subtlety is the name of the game. A loving look can say so much more than many words. Years of neglect and pain can be slowly dissolved through focused and loving healing touch. Release past feelings of intimacy buried for years just with gentle stroking of the face and body.

"I never knew how to worship until I knew how to love" --Henry Ward Beecher

Next time you are in the bedroom - instead of saying what you want to experience, tell your lover how you want to feel and allow them to do the same. Tell your lover what you love and appreciate about them. What makes them special to you.

Real fufilling love needs good quality regular care and feeding. It is journey rather than a destination or a serious of events. Part of that love and care is simply healing touch - 16463

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