Maybe you already have called your ex 100 times and begged and pleaded and made an idiot out of yourself. You really want to get your ex back and so youve been pushing hard. And they arent returning your calls. This is hugely frustrating!
If your ex won't talk to you, what can you do? Rather than try gimmicks or tricks like stalking them so you can bump into them at the supermarket, I recommend honesty and sincerity. So if they aren't calling you back, you can do a few different things:
Call them and leave a message saying if they just give you ten minutes, youll stop bugging them forever, so could they please call you back. If you sound sincere and make this believable, you can often get them to return your call. This way, if they do want you to stop bugging them, they can consider giving you ten minutes so you will leave them alone.
If they don't respond to that message, you can send them a short letter offering the same bargain. They may want you to suffer a little bit, but after a day or two you can often get a response from them, depending, of course, on how difficult and upsetting the break up was.
Once you've called and left a message or sent a note, give them a day or two to get back to you. And if they don't call you, and upsetting as it may be, it's okay. This obviously happens. Each break up is unique as to what caused it and how damaging emotionally it was. Getting your ex back is a process you have to dance with.
If they don't get to you, they may just need more time to process their feelings and begin to let go of their anger or sadness about you and the break up. They need space. Everyone is different. So give them a week of No Contact. A week of silence from you. Then try the above steps again.
Giving your ex some space, time, peace and quiet can be very difficult to do, but it also work wonders. It can show that you understand and respect their feelings and their needs, which is always a good thing. It may be hard for us to give them a week or two of space, but it can be just what is needed.
So give your ex a week of no contact if needed, then make a call. You can often get your ex back using some patience. If this doesn't work, there are still some other strategies you can use, like a particular kind of apology or reconnect letter. - 16463
If your ex won't talk to you, what can you do? Rather than try gimmicks or tricks like stalking them so you can bump into them at the supermarket, I recommend honesty and sincerity. So if they aren't calling you back, you can do a few different things:
Call them and leave a message saying if they just give you ten minutes, youll stop bugging them forever, so could they please call you back. If you sound sincere and make this believable, you can often get them to return your call. This way, if they do want you to stop bugging them, they can consider giving you ten minutes so you will leave them alone.
If they don't respond to that message, you can send them a short letter offering the same bargain. They may want you to suffer a little bit, but after a day or two you can often get a response from them, depending, of course, on how difficult and upsetting the break up was.
Once you've called and left a message or sent a note, give them a day or two to get back to you. And if they don't call you, and upsetting as it may be, it's okay. This obviously happens. Each break up is unique as to what caused it and how damaging emotionally it was. Getting your ex back is a process you have to dance with.
If they don't get to you, they may just need more time to process their feelings and begin to let go of their anger or sadness about you and the break up. They need space. Everyone is different. So give them a week of No Contact. A week of silence from you. Then try the above steps again.
Giving your ex some space, time, peace and quiet can be very difficult to do, but it also work wonders. It can show that you understand and respect their feelings and their needs, which is always a good thing. It may be hard for us to give them a week or two of space, but it can be just what is needed.
So give your ex a week of no contact if needed, then make a call. You can often get your ex back using some patience. If this doesn't work, there are still some other strategies you can use, like a particular kind of apology or reconnect letter. - 16463
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